The Myth #1: Porn is just for men.

I know so many females who agree that porn is just for men, and is somehow filthy, dirty and disgusting, and they think the idea of sharing a "porn night" with a boyfriend as an impossibility. I do not agree with this myth at all - of course the basic "hardcore girl/boy" porn does not turn me on at all, on the contrary, it bores me. However, I love to watch some lesbian clips or s/m films.

In addition, I think porn is a good way to make fantasies come true, at least into some extent. If you for example fancy about having a threesome, but feel reluctant to do it, I think it is better to just watch threesome films or clips.

Guy and I enjoy the same kind of porn. He also likes to watch lesbian clips, and likes the anal play as well as I.

In consequence, Guy and I decided to give it a try - we choose one lesbian film and started to caress each other in the middle of the clip. He got hard really fast, but I didn't wet at all - even though I felt excited and sexy, it wasn't somehow a natural situation. I was also worried that he wanted the girls in the clip, though I know he wanted me. This was quite weird, because usually I'm totally comfortable with myself and I'm really self-confident in bed.

So, it didn't work for us. At least it didn't work for me.

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SOME TIPS

- If you fantasize about something that you feel reluctant to do in reality or it seems too risky, try out some porn. Explore different categories to find your own - funny, role play, hentai, gay, lesbian etc. If you get wet/hard by watching porn, it does not mean that you want it to happen in reality, so don't feel ashamed, just enjoy yourself.

- There exists some free websites, as http://redtube.com/, http://www.youporn.com/

- If you want to get off with your partner while watching porn, make sure that you both agree with the type of the film.

- View the content quickly before starting to play with each other - sometimes there can be a weird scene that you do not enjoy watching at all, and this can put an uncomfortable end to your exploration.

- Make sure you're won't be disturbed by uninvited visitors or phone calls during the session.